If you’re a parent of a uniquely abled child then you know there will be times when you have to make your concerns heard. Especially those times when your worries are dismissed. Here are a few tips I’ve learned which have helped me advocate more effectively.
Two facts to remember
Trust yourself
If you have any concerns or gut feelings about your child’s development or behavior don’t ignore them. Chances are there’s a very good reason why you’re feeling this way. Don’t ignore it.
You are the expert on your child
The professionals who work with your child are experts in their field. However, YOU are the expert on your child. No one knows your child as much as you do. So don’t be ashamed or intimidated to share your concerns. Keep in mind, you are the most important resource when it comes to your child’s health.
Presenting your concerns
Confidence in yourself is the foundation for making concerns heard but you also need to follow it up with something tangible. Because it makes a huge difference how we share our concerns. If you observe the following three steps it will make it harder to ignore.
Gather data
It’s important to document EVERYTHING. Take time to write down your concerns. If at all possible, take pictures or videos, especially about the behavior you’re worried about. Showing your concern is a lot more effective than verbally expressing it.
Research everything
The internet makes it easy to do research, you don’t even have to leave your home. In addition, talk to as many people as possible, whether that be fellow moms or other experts. Gather and pool their collective knowledge.
Put everything together
Combine all the data you gathered plus your research. Put it all together in a neat package and bring it with you to give to the professionals who work with your child.
What I’ve learned
Having confidence in myself and taking the time to document my concerns have made it harder for people to ignore them.
If you have any other tips that were successful for you, I’d love to know.